{Inspiration Board} Navy & Lilac

I was just contacted by a friend whose brother is in the early stages of wedding planning.  They are having an outdoor wedding in early October in North Carolina, and my friend asked my opinion on color combos and wedding party attire.  The couple wants a dark or navy blue for the bridesmaids, and a more casual option for the groomsmen, but without looking too casual or country.  A lavendar accent color was suggested, a combination that I think is very fresh and chic.  I designed an inspiration board for them to see how they liked the colors together and to get an overall feel for the design of their wedding.  Here is what I came up with:

Top row from left:  photo by Molly Fitzsimmons, photo by Stacey Kane, photo by The Sartorialist, photo by Punam Bean, boutonniere via Martha Stewart Weddings, lavendar photo by Jose Villa
Row 2:  calligraphy by Betsy Dunlap, church photo by Laura Dombrowski, invitation photo by Holland Photo Arts, lemonade photo by Cooper Carras,  blue Converse photo by Worthington Photography
Row 3:  place setting via Martha Stewart Weddings, macarons from Paulette, photo by Punam Bean,  hydrangea photo by Meg Smith
I love the feel of the hydrangeas and lilacs, natural and effortless.  Picture them placed in mixed sizes of blue and clear mason jars…very outdoor southern wedding. Imagine the country charm of a green field and a big oak tree and guests mingling while drinking lemonade and sweet tea out of jelly glasses.  The groomsmen wearing khaki’s and blue converse or vans, and coordinating ties, and the bridesmaids in different dresses in the same family of navy and indigo.  The groom could wear a light grey suit and the bridesmaids matching grey pashminas when it gets chilly after dark…there are so many options my head is spinning!  I can’t wait to hear what the couple comes up with.

{DIY} S’mores Kits for Favors or Gifts

One of the most important things I think any bride can do in planning her wedding is to come up with at least one DIY (do-it-yourself) project.  Whether it is your menus, programs, favors, or a cute extra project (or all of the above!), DIY elements add a special touch to your wedding, show your guests you put time and thought into the elements of your wedding, add a little bit of ‘you”, and save you money!  I am going to try whenever possible to post DIY projects or ideas for weddings that I have come up with or found on the blog circuit. 

One of my favorite DIY ideas I have come across is actually quite simple – a s’mores kit.  It would be a perfect wedding favor idea for a fall or winter wedding or an element to use in out-of-town bags for guests, not to mention a great gift for everyday use (think holiday gift, thank you gift, hostess gift…)  How perfect would this project be as a favor idea for the winter inspired wedding previously featured!?

DIY and Pictures from Twig & Thistle

Materials needed:  marshmallows, chocolate, graham crackers, acetate boxes or clear plastic bags (depending on how big you want the kits and how you prefer to package them, but I prefer the acetate boxes, which can be found here), and baker’s twine or your choice of ribbon

Go to Twig & Thistle for full instructions here!

{Inspiration Board} Winter Inspiration

Since I am not suffering in snow like most of the country, I am still a little nostalgic for winter.  That, combined with wanting to help someone come up with ideas on how to design a winter/holiday wedding for next year without looking too Christmasy, led me to utilize the Style Circle Inspiration Board creator over at Style Me Pretty that I mentioned in a previous post.  It really is an amazing design tool!
To see what I came up with, follow this link:

This was the first picture I found and built the board around.

By Allison Events via Snippet & Ink

I Heart Etsy!

The best website out there in my opinion is Etsy!  It is basically a collection of stores that sell any handmade good you can think of.  They have a wedding section, which is amazing, but there are also sections for just about anything you are in the market for.  If you register for a free account you can save your favorite items and sellers for future reference.

Need a great gift for a friend who is from or lives in Chicago? 

Go here to Moxiedoll

How about a great gift idea for a wedding or anniversary? (they also have ones for baby births)

Go here to Paloma’s Nest (they also have ring bowls for weddings which I LOVE!)
What about a unique hair piece for your wedding?
Go here to ClarkandDiversey for amazing finds!
(the piece above was custom made for me to wear in my own wedding and turned out beautifully)
How about splurging on a gorgeous custom made dress?  This is definitely on my dream etsy purchase list!
Go here to sarahseven for this and other beautiful handmade pieces.

Run over to etsy and start picking your favorites, but be prepared to get swept away by all of the unique, fun, vintage, and lovely items for sale!  You’ve been warned…

J.Crew Flu

It is truly a sickness how much I love J.Crew.  I still remember going to my mailbox in my dorm my freshman year at Miami of Ohio and getting my first J.Crew catalog (everyone got them…they call Miami J.Crew U for a reason!)  Growing up in a small town nowhere near a J.Crew store, I had never really been exposed to J.Crew before.  It was there that my sickness began.  I would order sweaters in the winter from my J.Crew catalog and get so excited when they would arrive in the mail, like a package from home!  While J.Crew did go through a dull period, it has been revamped in recent years and now has so many beautifully chic and feminine pieces that it is hard to buy just a couple of things.  And now that the first lady has made J.Crew a staple of her wardrobe, things often sell out quickly!  Here are a few of my current favorites:

Long beach cardigan $138.00 item 20796
Frances stripe ruffled tuxedo shirt $89.50 Item 17669
Crystal Malibu necklace $68.00 item 22711
Silk bouquet sash was $35.00 select colors $25.00 item 21398

And for those of us living in warmer weather:

Jersey promenade gown $118.00 item 23480
Cyprus metallic gladiator sandals $115.00 item 20415
Luxe très bow bandeau top and bikini $44.00 item 21556

They also have an amazing wedding collection!  From bridal gowns to bridesmaid dresses, shoes and accessories…you could literally find your entire bridal party wardrobe at J.Crew.  I got my bridal shoes and clutch from J.Crew, each on sale for under $100.

Both from J.Crew, no longer available online.

Where do I begin?

When you are first beginning to plan the design of your wedding, it can be very overwhelming. The day I got engaged, my maid of honor sent me a list of wedding blogs, and I was hooked instantly. Some of those blogs (Style Me Pretty, Snippet & Ink, Once Wed, Southern Weddings, etc.) are ones I still follow today and provided me with tons of wedding design inspiration. A tool that I saw on some of them was a collage of photos, sometimes called an inspiration board, that is used as the basis for the design of your wedding. I believe this is a great place to start your design inspiration.

Basically I just saved photos that I loved or pictures of elements I thought were inspiring. I had folders on my computer for florals, cakes, paper, dresses, hairstyles, wedding party attire, accessories, decor, and personal touches. Anytime I found things I loved I would save the photo in one of those folders. After a couple of months, I looked at these images, deleted ones I no longer loved or that didn’t speak to me as much as the others, and then I designed my inspiration board.

Your inspiration board will probably change somewhat along the way, because your design will probably change as you begin to make your inspiration a reality. But the board provides you with something that you can always come back to and helps you keep your design cohesive.

I designed my own inspiration board using Picasa, because it is the only tool I had at the time. Any software that you have should let you make a collage.  Another great new tool is Style Me Pretty’s Style Circle, where you can make inspiration boards, blog, chat, save favorites, and lots of other great things.  Head over there and sign up:  https://circle.stylemepretty.com/

Here is an example of an inspiration board I made for a contest on Style Me Pretty’s site which would be a great inspiration board for an outdoor spring or summer wedding.  I love the effortlessly chic style:


Top Row: Placecards, Lulu Paper from Snippet & Ink
https://snippetandink.blogspot.com/2009/07/board-401-lemon-and-sugar.html , Flowers: Katie Stoops of Open Air Photography https://www.thebridescafe.com/?postID=340&the-secret-garden
Lemon aisle: jose villa https://www.oncewed.com/13271/real-weddings-blog/real-weddings/daniel-laura-ii/
Middle Row: Hanging lanterns by Leigh Miller photography at https://www.stylemepretty.com/2008/06/18/real-wedding-by-duet-weddings-iii/ , Vera Wang gown from Look Book, Bouquet by Bellisima Vita Weddings on Snippet & Ink, https://snippetandink.blogspot.com/2009/07/board-401-lemon-and-sugar.html ,
Bottom Row, cake by K rose cakes at Snippet & Ink (same link as above), Table setting, Martha Stewart Weddings, https://www.marthastewartweddings.com/photogallery/outdoor-weddings lnc=6b1c139b22b1d110VgnVCM1000003d370a0aRCRD&rsc=lpg_inspiration&lpgStart=1¤tslide=16¤tChapter=2#ms-global-breadcrumbs, Florals, Katie Stoops from Open Air Photgraphy at https://www.thebridescafe.com/?postID=340&the-secret-garden